In every conflict, there are really three sides to it (like a triangle) – your truth on one side, their truth on the other, and then the higher-level solution at the top. If you stay stuck on your side of the triangle, younever solve the problem. The Triangle of Truth, my new.
[Read More]How do you live or work with someone who sees the world through a different lens than you do? This was the challenge facing Thomas Jefferson and John Adams back in 1776. Adams, considered by most historians to be a conservative, and Jefferson, whom most view as a liberal,.
[Read More]Other people are flawed; they’re badly flawed. They’re selfish, they’re mean, they’re cheap, they’re sloppy, they’re lazy, and in most cases, they’re completely unwilling to even acknowledge they’re doing anything wrong. No matter how many times we point it out to them. People are hopelessly flawed. They always were,.
[Read More]We’re at a turning point. We claim we want civility. But let’s be honest; what we really want is for the other side to shut up. We can criticize the politicians, but how many of us truly want to collaborate or cooperate? Here’s the deal, people: Congress works for.
[Read More]We’re at a turning point. We claim we want civility. But let’s be honest; what we really want is for the other side to shut up. We can criticize the politicians, but how many of us truly want to collaborate or cooperate? Here’s the deal, people: Congress works for.
[Read More]The real difference between introverts and extroverts isn’t social skills; it’s about how you recharge your batteries. When most people think about extroverts vs. introverts, they often envision the stark contrast between the charismatic guy wowing the room with a rip-roaring joke and the awkward, quiet guy in wrinkled.
[Read More]How did you choose your profession? Did you lie awake at night as a child fantasizing about spending 10 hours a day hunched over a computer? If you’re like most people, you probably fell into your profession. When I was a kid, my secret dream was to be a.
[Read More]An Open Letter to Congress: I know you’re scared. One of your members was gunned down in public. Six people are dead, including a nine-year-old little girl, a third grade student council member who wanted to see democracy in action. You can pretend this was an isolated incident. Or,.
[Read More]Eighty percent of New Year’s resolutions fail by January 20th. I’ve got a great track record for keeping my resolutions. In fact, I’ve lost 10 pounds about 15 times. The problem is it’s the same 10 pounds. I get motivated to take it off, but like many, I struggle.
[Read More]Have you ever noticed that when you give to others you feel better about yourself? There’s a reason for that. As human beings, we’re hard wired for connection. There are two basic human needs, intimacy and ultimacy. We have an innate desire to create meaningful connections while we’re on.
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