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Innovation & Change

The Real Reason So Many People Are Such Bad Communicators

From the anal-retentive drones whose PowerPoint presentations seem to last for weeks to the overbearing braggart who can’t stop telling you how wonderful he is, some people just aren’t very good at communicating. You’ve probably also experienced the awkward silences, stammered replies and mid-sentence brain freezes that can stall a meeting, presentation.

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How to Solve Really Big Problems

War, disease, famine, your checking account. Sometimes big problems can seem so overwhelming you don’t know where to start.  It feels like trying to dig a hole to China.  With a spoon. But what if instead of feeling like you had to solve the whole problem, you could just solve one.

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Why Love Means Never Having to Say, "Yes, But"

As the cameras zoomed in, he started to squirm.When they cut to the close up, his entire head looked like it was about to explode. He had come on the Dr. Phil show because he wanted to repair his marriage in the aftermath of his affair. But with his personal life.

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Why Love Means Never Having to Say, “Yes, But”

As the cameras zoomed in, he started to squirm.When they cut to the close up, his entire head looked like it was about to explode. He had come on the Dr. Phil show because he wanted to repair his marriage in the aftermath of his affair. But with his personal life.

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How to Solve Conflicts Without Compromising or Killing Each Other

In every conflict, there are really three sides to it (like a triangle) – your truth on one side, their truth on the other, and then the higher-level solution at the top. If you stay stuck on your side of the triangle, younever solve the problem. The Triangle of Truth, my new.

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What Thomas Jefferson and John Adams Can Teach Us About Working With Someone We Despise

How do you live or work with someone who sees the world through a different lens than you do? This was the challenge facing Thomas Jefferson and John Adams back in 1776. Adams, considered by most historians to be a conservative, and Jefferson, whom most view as a liberal,.

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How 'We The People' Can Restore Civility In Congress

We’re at a turning point.  We claim we want civility.   But let’s be honest; what we really want is for the other side to shut up. We can criticize the politicians, but how many of us truly want to collaborate or cooperate? Here’s the deal, people: Congress works for.

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How ‘We The People’ Can Restore Civility In Congress

We’re at a turning point.  We claim we want civility.   But let’s be honest; what we really want is for the other side to shut up. We can criticize the politicians, but how many of us truly want to collaborate or cooperate? Here’s the deal, people: Congress works for.

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How Introverts Can Connect Better With People

The real difference between introverts and extroverts isn’t social skills; it’s about how you recharge your batteries. When most people think about extroverts vs. introverts, they often envision the stark contrast between the charismatic guy wowing the room with a rip-roaring joke and the awkward, quiet guy in wrinkled.

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Is Your Job the Problem, or Is It Your Personality?

How did you choose your profession? Did you lie awake at night as a child fantasizing about spending 10 hours a day hunched over a computer? If you’re like most people, you probably fell into your profession. When I was a kid, my secret dream was to be a.

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